It would seem that John wants us all to be able to lay our head on Jesus’ chest.
When opposition comes, and it will, simply move on to another field of labor. There will be those to help wherever you go. You just need to be looking!
Jesus ate with sinners, He did not SIN with sinners.
In order for love to abound, we must get outside our comfort zone and find new ways to love God by loving others.
This side of glory we are not going to find that perfect relationship, family, or church.